How Long, O Lord?

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Life has been difficult these past few years. You may be like me, wondering, “How long is this going to go on?”

David asks the same kind of question in Psalm 13: “How long, O Lord? Will you forget me forever? How long will you hide your face from me? How long must I wrestle with my thoughts and every day have sorrow in my heart?” (Psalm 13:1–2a). David’s difficulties at the time must have been going on for a while; you can hear his deep struggle each time he asks, “How long?”

But even though David clearly doesn’t feel it in that moment, he knows deep down that God is with him. A little later he says, “But I trust in your unfailing love; my heart rejoices in your salvation” (verse 5). The phrase “unfailing love” comes from the Hebrew word hesed, which refers to God’s persistent, unconditional, tender love. Because of this love, David knows he can honestly express his deepest feelings, trusting that God will listen and care.

During these difficult times, I want to assure you that your prayers are heard because of God’s hesed for you, just as David’s were. When David rejoiced in God’s salvation, he knew of the promised Messiah, but he couldn’t yet see the full story of how Jesus would see our suffering, take on human flesh, bear our grief, and pave the way to eternal life and restoration. But we can see the full story. We can have hope in the midst of our pain because we know of Jesus’ sacrifice for us and the promise that one day there will be no disease, death, or evil. That promise encourages us as we face challenges in our lives, and it makes it possible to faithfully care for others, knowing Jesus is with us every step of the way.

Your ministry as Stephen Leaders and Stephen Ministers is so valuable. Each day, your care receivers, along with countless others, are able to pour out their pain to their Stephen Ministers. And, through your consistent, compassionate presence, you can reflect Christ’s light into the dark places of your care receivers’ lives, connecting them to the hope of God’s unfailing love. Your Stephen Ministry makes a powerful difference, ensuring people in your congregation and community who may have sorrow in their heart do not have to struggle alone.

I pray that as you continue to care for those who are suffering, God will strengthen your heart for ministry, daily reminding you of the love and salvation Jesus freely offers. And with that assurance, may you continue to bring that same hope to whomever God sends your way.

Rev. Justin Schlueter
Pastoral Staff
Stephen Ministries St. Louis